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I Came. I Saw. I Stayed.

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After a week of trudging along the Natchez Trace, I miss two things: home cooking and the conveniences of my own place. Eating with Dad means he pouts like a toddler if we go somewhere he thinks he won’t like. Plus, there’s this…..

“I can’t eat greens, cause I take coumadin. You know, that blood thinner? And I can’t eat sugar, because I’m a diabetic. My blood sugar was 160 when I pricked my finger this morning. Dropped the alcohol and got blood all over the bathroom. Oh, and I can’t eat peanuts, because they aggravate my hemorrhoids.”

“Yay, Dad. I’m STARVING now.”

Sigh. (While the server flees our table and screams about the crazy man at number 13.)

The Isabella Bed & Breakfast in Port Gibson, Mississippi, accommodated Dad’s picky palate. They even made a special dinner for us after a grueling day on the Trace, meaning I didn’t have to drive all the way back to Natchez to fill up. I was sorry to leave.

Until……

We checked in at Mamie’s Cottage in Raymond, Mississippi, and I laid my knackered eyeballs on the jacuzzi tub. I think I spent as much time with those burbling jets as I did hiking the Trace……….oh, wait. I just dreamed I did that. I couldn’t luxuriate in the tub without Dad barging in to empty his bladder every 30 minutes. No, he didn’t care about my state of undress. When he’s gotta go, he’s GOTTA GO.

If I ever want to see the Trace again after hiking its 444-mile length, I’ll definitely give both these places a call.

Click here to see the best photos from Day Nine of my Natchez Trace walk: Andra Watkins Tumblr

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  1. Reblogged this on Poetry by Pamela and commented:
    #Toliveforever – great book, great blog, great people – download the book and read it TODAY! And best wishes to Andra as she continues her walk

    March 10, 2014
    • Thanks for the reblog, Pamela, and your ringing endorsement of the book.

      March 10, 2014
  2. You only missed those two things? You didn’t miss MTM?! For shame… 😉

    March 10, 2014
    • He was with me when I wrote this post. Now, I miss him more than anything.

      March 10, 2014
  3. Cayleigh #

    Love the magic pants! I can attest that both of the B&B’s went out of their way to make their guests feel comfortable! They were delightful. Happy trails today.

    March 10, 2014
    • Alice #

      This is not Cayleigh- didn’t catch it was set up for her.

      March 10, 2014
    • As I told you earlier, I miss you. Dad really did a DAD this afternoon. I’m so mad at him I could spit.

      March 10, 2014
  4. So glad you had your wingman with you! 🙂

    March 10, 2014
  5. MTM waving the card before the camera cracked me up! Glad he could join you. I’ve never stayed at Mamie’s Cottage but it sounds fabulous.

    March 10, 2014
    • It was really relaxing, and the breakfasts were sensational.

      March 10, 2014
  6. Just think of Roy as your fail-safe security robot. He keeps you alert and on your toes so you’re ready for anything. Or maybe he’s just Roy. Dr. Bronner’s Peppermint Soap for your feet, by the way. A little soak will get them happy and peppy and minty and then Roy will want to pop his feet in that foot bath because he’s drawn in by the scent of peppermint (and probably has a story about that too)…

    March 10, 2014
  7. Nice to see you still laughing and MTM still providing the source. Great fun.

    March 10, 2014
  8. I LOVED the video Andra. I also love the fact that you have MTM there by your side providing you with support. As for Roy…. HA! Barging in on you while you are soaking your tired body. LOL That sounds like something would do I suppose. LOL

    March 10, 2014
    • It was great to have MTM here for a couple of days. I miss him now.

      March 10, 2014
  9. I’m with John. Great to see you smiling so happily. Walking that danged road must be lonely business! Having his humor and love along / behind must have felt great.

    Roy, give a girl some privacy!

    March 10, 2014
  10. This is so exciting! Just purchased the book on my Kindle. Go Andra!

    March 10, 2014
    • Can’t wait to hear what you think, Carolyn. Thanks for buying it.

      March 10, 2014
  11. You two are just cute as the dickens! (In the colloquial sense not the original, of course)

    March 10, 2014
  12. It’s great to put a face to MTM too. You are so blessed to have that kind of support. Happy walking!

    March 10, 2014
  13. Aww – Best.Wingman.Ever!!

    March 10, 2014
  14. Jim KaneJ #

    Great video today and I feel for you but I also really feel for your dad! 😉

    Blessings and safe travels!

    Jim

    March 10, 2014
  15. Jim Kane #

    Great video today! And I feel for your dad! 😉

    Jim

    March 10, 2014
  16. Good health and energy to you, Andra.

    March 10, 2014
  17. Cindy Duryea #

    Andra, I look forward to your daily posts almost as much as I did turning the pages of your book! What a great read…loved, loved, loved it. Finished it on Monday and my neighbor Judy finished it 2 days after that. I have a couple of questions: Do you get nervous walking by yourself? After reading To Live Forever, I’d never walk on that trail alone! Secondly, what time do you anticipate arriving in Nashville on the 3rd? Carry on, and know that you have a fan base back home cheering you on as you walk.

    March 10, 2014
    • I’ll save your first question for a video, Cindy. Your second one: if I stay on schedule, I only have 9 miles to walk on the 3rd. I hope to get to the big bridge at the end of the Trace between noon and 1pm on the 3rd. If you and Ed can sneak up to see your daughter, I’d love to see you there and/or at Parnassus that night.

      Thanks for sharing the book with Judy. It’s great to hear that history teachers like it. I was worried about that.

      March 10, 2014
  18. Hey, being backed up by MTM os a super, smiley, happy dance sort of thing – and Roy, well, Roy is Roy and his heart is in the right place. I will remember all your stops along the way, Andra, should I ever wander the Natchez Trace.

    March 10, 2014
  19. I want a hot tub.

    March 10, 2014
  20. Looks like things are going well for you, Andra… I’ve not had much chance to call by lately, but I’ve been filling in the blanks between when I have popped by, your updates on my blog (especially the heat!) and my imagination. Looks like things are going well to me… enjoy your bubbles! Keep going!

    March 10, 2014
  21. Hilarious. You could write another book about your trials and tribulations with Roy and the Natchez walk. Oh, and I love MTM’s northern accent. So cute. 😉

    March 10, 2014
    • I’d love to get a book out of this, Mary. We’ll see how it goes.

      March 10, 2014
    • I love the way MTM says ‘hundred.’

      ‘hunnerd’, just like a Wisconsinite.

      March 10, 2014
      • Ha! I’ll be self-conscious now whenever I say hundred. 🙂

        March 10, 2014
  22. Lance #

    AN MTM APPEARANCE!

    I’m loving your pictures and your dedication to all of this. Great job

    March 10, 2014
    • Dedication flagging today, Lance. But there’s always tomorrow.

      March 10, 2014
  23. Awww, that was so sweet. You make a lovely couple 🙂

    March 10, 2014
  24. That was my favorite video so far… next to the one with the toilet paper. 🙂

    March 10, 2014
  25. This was just THE BEST! I’m sure you’re going to wish MTM were with you every step forward. You obviously have so much fun together. Hope the VooDoo doll is holding up, too!

    March 11, 2014
    • I lost the black pin on the voodoo doll, but otherwise, he’s swell.

      March 11, 2014
  26. vastlycurious.com #

    Awwwww! So nice to see MTM, he seems like a great guy! Your pictures on Tumblr are great and so is your journey. Someday you will look fondly back on they strip with your dad !
    ( I think : )

    March 11, 2014
    • It is a gift (however trying at times) to get to spend over a month with my father near the end of his life, while he still can. I try to focus on that when I want to throttle him. Like now. When I sent him out to get me something for dinner, and he’s disappeared because he found strangers to talk to, and who knows if he’ll even remember to bring me something to eat.

      March 11, 2014
      • vastlycurious.com #

        I hope you eat Andra, you need your strength!

        March 11, 2014
  27. Your accent is lovely, Andra.

    March 11, 2014
  28. Your dad and my dad have A LOT in common. Also, I really like your husband’s nose, and how easily he makes you laugh. 🙂

    March 11, 2014
    • That whole bit was a complete surprise to me. Unrehearsed.

      March 11, 2014
  29. It was very cool of MTM to walk with you!

    March 13, 2014

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